For over 40 years I have had the joy of serving as a Family Life Pastor in several churches. My responsibilities were to model living as a godly man and to influence others by God’s grace to walk with Christ in their marriages, to learn how to forgive like Christ in their families and to teach their children daily to be Christ followers at every stage of childhood and youth.
…(God) commanded our ancestors to teach their children, so the next generation would know them (God’s laws), even the children yet to be born, and they in turn would tell their children. Psalm 78:5-6
Then God called me to begin serving men and women and families who are not able to attend a church or a home gathering, people who are incarcerated and their families.
Many years ago, while serving as a Family Life Pastor, some of the men in our church encouraged me to get involved in a local jail ministry called Lifeline. Even though I was clueless about jail ministry I agreed to join them.
We started with five volunteers and we began meeting with 25 inmates, encouraging them to follow Christ, to grow in godliness and to build a legacy of faith.
To be honest, I was not sure how “Family Ministry” would work in a jail setting.
He will turn the hearts of the parents to their children, and the hearts of the children to their parents; or else I will come and strike the land with total destruction. Malachi 4:6
We began teaching them about God’s word and how to be godly men and godly fathers. Most of the inmates did not even know their fathers. We taught them, we loved them, we listened to them and we prayed with them.
Christ began to change us, the volunteers. And the 25 inmates began coming to Christ, growing in their faith, seeking forgiveness and wanting to bring hope and healing to their children. In that one jail, 1,500 men were baptized in a four-year period.
Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12
Five years ago, I left my lifelong vocation of church based family ministry and I became a full time missionary and the leader of Lifeline. God is blessing us and we now have this ministry established in 33 US states and in 41 countries across the globe.
Let me share one personal story about an inmate named Frank (not his real name) who found himself in prison for life at 20 years of age. A guard in his prison gave him a Bible and for a year he read God’s Word and talked from time to time with his Christian guard friends. After a year he came to faith in Christ in a transformational way. Frank began growing in his faith and he began leading worship in the prison chapel services. God greatly used Frank in this role.
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16
While in prison, Frank’s daughter was born and he desperately wanted to meet her. Finally, after nine years, the mother of his little girl allowed her to meet her father at one of our Returning Hearts Celebrations, a day where inmates and their children can meet, many for the first time. We organize lots of fun, food and games for the children to play with their inmate dads. And the dads have an opportunity to seek forgiveness from their children and to help bring healing to their families.
Only God could allow inmates and their families to experience forgiveness, healing and hope.
This unique family ministry began with a few faithful brothers and sisters teaching God’s word to 25 inmates.
Now scores of volunteers are teaching God’s word to tens of thousands of inmates around the United States and the World.
Will you consider joining us on this great adventure?
Continue to remember those in prison as if you were together with them in prison, and those who are mistreated as if you yourselves were suffering. Hebrews 13:3
I was in prison and you came to visit me…..The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’ Matthew 25:36-40
MIKE BROYLES has a passion for bringing the gospel message to inmate fathers and mothers and their children. He believes that as these men and women are reconciled to Christ and taught the fundamentals of biblical parenting, they will then be equipped to start the process of reconciliation with their children. Teaching and education have always been strong interests of Mike’s. He has held several pastoral positions, at various churches, spanning a 40-year time period. In these roles, his love for children grew as he and his wife Debbie administered children’s Sunday school programs and Awana clubs. Since 2008, Mike has been involved in Jail and Prison ministry, spearheading the implementation of the Malachi Dads program and annual Returning Hearts Celebration into the Los Angeles County Jail system as well as the Hannah’s Gift program. There is a 70% likelihood that a child with an incarcerated parent will end up being incarcerated themselves. Mike wants to break this cycle by helping these children to become godly adults. In order for the chains of incarceration to be broken, the inmate father or mother needs to reconcile with their children. Mike has seen and continues to see broken families made whole and the children’s guardians are a key component to the reconciliation process as they provide the essential nurturing element while the parent is in prison and can help encourage the reunion between the child and his or her parent. As such, Lifeline has a program that ministers to these guardians while the children under their care attend the Returning Hearts Celebration. To contact Mike, email him at [email protected]
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